Behavior management is a constant challenge for teachers. It's so much easier when you infuse it with a little fun! Here are ten tips for behavior management with humor.
1) Laugh ASAP!
Laugh ASAP! The same discipline won’t work for all kids, all the time. So the more tricks you’ve got up your sleeve, the better—and humor is one of the best. A sense of play grows organically out of the moment, and kids buy into it. A good way to start is to add a small basket of props to your teaching area. You can pull out a stuffed animal to “deliver” some lesson lines in a funny voice. Or, wave a “magic wand” over your unfocused students and hypnotically say, “Welcome back to Earth.”
2) Safety first, then fun
Safety first, then fun. You can’t have humor in an out-of-control class. That’s not funny; it’s an accident waiting to happen. So, the rule is: teach rules first—what’s expected and why.
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Explain
the rule—be clear and detailed.
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Let
students add their thoughts, and explore what bad things might happen if they
don’t follow the rule. That’s how it becomes embedded in their conscience,
enforcing it 24/7.
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Demo
the rule, or have one kid demo it, then two kids, then three or more, and
finally the whole class.
· Practice over several days till it’s perfect.
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Add
a dash of humor: “If you run and fall, you could bump your nose; and, until it
heals you might have to wear this big-plastic-nose-and-eyeglass mask.”
3) Let humor spill over
Let humor spill over into the common core subjects. Once in a while, allow your kids to shout out funny free-associations. Your entire day will become more creative and high-interest, with on-task behavior more likely. If humor threatens to overrun the lesson, you can hold a fake microphone and speak in a TV anchor voice: “That was refreshing…and now we return to our regular scheduled program.”
4) Humor should heal
Humor should heal, not hurt. It should never be sarcastic, cruel, cynical, aloof, embarrassing, or disrespectful. When you emphasize respectfulness—seeing and appreciating others as they are—kids want to show their best side.
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Say:
“You look magnificent right now. I’m going to snap your picture. (Make a
viewfinder with your fingers and say, 'Click.') That image will live in my
heart and mind forever!”
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A
small token of your admiration, like a fun award or brag tag, also works
wonders.
5) Know your kids
Know your kids. Speak to them personally in a warm, cozy, and sometimes funny way. If your kids think of themselves as fashion-forward, rock stars, science fiction buffs, or transformer-lovers, then use that! Pour it on thick, and use it all at once.
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When
your kids walk in line, you can say: “Shoulders back, head up, chest out, arms
down, legs straight, don’t touch, don’t turn, don’t talk…”
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Then
say: “Now suck in your cheeks and tilt your head—ever-so-slightly. That’s it!
You look like a million bucks, girlfriend; no, a billion bucks. Workin’ it, workin’ it…a perfect motion machine…like
a rock star, like a little baby-alien transformer, like the visiting king! Cool! Lovin’ it! Really, really lovin’ it!”
6) Know yourself
Know yourself. Introduce humor gradually, at a comfortable pace that matches your style. It can be as simple as throwing a one-liner into a lesson…or as elaborate as wearing a cute alien-mask all day and seeking the best Earthling behavior for an out-of-the-world prize.
Be mindful—attuned to the priorities of the moment. Humor should be mindful, too, appropriate to the context. You wouldn’t wear a red clown nose during a fire drill or laugh when someone is hurting, physically or emotionally.
8) Set up a stop signal
Set up a stop signal. It can be as simple as, “Give me 5-4-3-2-1,” with five fingers lowered each in turn. It’s important to set boundaries, especially for emergencies. Why not make it fun to practice? Have your kids laugh wildly, and then stop abruptly when you wave your arm—like an orchestra conductor making a double circle in the air, or an umpire waving “safe.”
9) Relax and go with the flow
Relax and go with the flow. Enjoy your kids and the life you’re living. Memo: Laughing’s fun! A big belly laugh will bind your class together with a deep rapport. On the other hand, without joy and spice sprinkled into your day, creative play will go underground in the form of spitballs, graffiti, and pranks; the class clowns and the rebels will rule. Not nice! Remember: if you don’t laugh with your students, your students will laugh at you (behind your back).
10) Just do it!
Just do it! Act the part till you’re comfortable with it. Laughing shakes up our lymph system, and heals our body, mind and soul. It strengthens the immune system, lowers our blood pressure and makes us more present and alert. It’s empowering, rapport-building…and I can say from experience, it’s one of the most powerful tools in our behavior management kit. It’s a must-have for kids and teachers alike.
I love a good laugh, and over the years I’ve collected hundreds of funny things to say and do, that will help kids to behave and enjoy life and learning.
Behavior Management with Humor provides step-by-step skills for survival 101 in the classroom, and then adds tools and strategies to make it FUN.
If you’d like a Behavior Management MEGA-Bundle, with more ways to teach School Rules, Behavior Modification Game Charts, Callbacks and Brag Tags, it’s here.
As always, I’m wishing you all the best!
